Showing posts with label stress. Show all posts
Showing posts with label stress. Show all posts

On Stress

May 18, 2011

I am horrible at handling stress.  This is something I've really had to work hard at managing, and, many times, I've failed.  Emotionally, I get incredibly anxious when there are too many things on my plate or when I've avoided confronting or dealing with a problem.  Work, studying, commitments to friends and family, deadlines, responsibilities, expectations from others and myself, and everyday life can be overwhelming at times.  I know that if I don't handle my stress carefully, it will end up snowballing down on me at some point which leads to emotional and physical fatigue and pain.  Both of these consequences are exasperated by my autoimmune illness, and it usually takes days or weeks to recover from it.  In summary, it sucks.

However, over the last 10 years, I've learned that there are things that I can do to help prevent this.  Specifically, I've found that through art and creativity, I am able to release some of the tension that I tend to keep pent up inside.  Other stress-relieving methods such as exercise, yoga, and meditation also seem to help, but art is definitely my go-to solution for stress management. 

I thought I would bring this up for a few reasons.  One being that I have suffered from horrible back, neck and arm pain for the last month.  Pain that would wake me up at night (trust me, it's not fun).  Finally, I caved and saw my general practitioner, who after questioning me, was led to the conclusion that it was probably caused from stress stemming from the big exam I took at the beginning of April.  I remembered how tense I was in the week before the exam and even on the actual exam day.  I pretty much ate, slept, and breathed exam preparation for most of March, and I neglected to handle the mounting stress I was feeling- no wonder I've felt so horrible for the last month.  This is the first time I've had severe muscle tension from stress, and it's really been a reminder/wake-up call that managing stress will be a continuing struggle for me.

The second reason I thought I would bring light to this is that stress management is really important for everyone- whether you suffer from an autoimmune illness or not.  It affects your metabolism, immune system, muscles, emotional health, and can negatively affect overall life.  It can cause ulcers and heart problems.  For Lupus patients, stress can cause flare ups (increased activity of the illness) and can lead to serious problems, such as Lupus Nephritis- Lupus involvement of the kidneys.  This is something that my mother suffered from, and I now wish we had made an earlier (better) effort to manage stress in our lives.

To find out more information about stress and ways to manage it, visit the American Institute of Stress.
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Stress

November 19, 2010

I have a really difficult time dealing with stress.  I get incredibly anxious over simple matters.. in hindsight, it's really silly.  I know there are things that can help with this, but I have trouble finding the time fitting them into my schedule (meaning:  I find other, better, more fun things to do).  My most recent experience with this may cause a change in my lifestyle.  For the last month I've been feeling really anxious/ stressed out about various stuff going on in my life (sorry to be vague, but it includes both professional and personal items).  As a result, I had been experiencing a horrible back pain near my neck that would not go away.  Until yesterday, when a majority of the stress/anxiety I had been feeling finally subsided.  Last night I slept through the entire night, without being woken up by pain.  I can't remember the last time I was able to do that.
As of now, I haven't had any serious side effects from the stress I put my body through.  I know that it's possible this will not always be the case.  I'm realizing the importance of setting aside a specific amount of time each and every day to simply relax my mind and body.  I'm going to try to accomplish this through meditation and exercise, so we'll see how that goes.  I've tried some yoga, and, though I really like it, I worry I'm doing it wrong.  So, I may take a class to make sure I'm not causing additional damage.  In the past, I would talk to my mom about stress.  Obviously, this isn't possible anymore, so I need to adapt and try to find other outlets for venting.  If not to my husband, then to a friend or counselor. 
I know I'm probably not the only person that has a difficulty with this.  Anyone else have suggestions for managing stress?
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